Come Home: Questions for Book Clubs

  1. COME HOME, at its heart, is the story of family, and more specifically, the blending of families. What are the dynamics in your own family like? What do you think the greatest challenge is in blending two families?
  2. One of the main themes in this book is leaving home and “coming home.” In which ways have each of the main characters (Jill, Abby, Megan, Victoria) left home or come home?
  3. Do you understand Jill’s emotional response to Abby when she first sees her after several years? Why or why not?
  4. Describe Sam’s response to the dynamics between Abby and Jill. Do you agree with him? Do you relate to his response? Do you feel he acted appropriately?
  5. Have you ever had a situation where you were forced to be estranged from someone you cared about?
  6. How do you think the Abby’s and Victoria’s separation from Jill affected them?What do you think Jill could have done differently, given the circumstances?
  7. How would you describe Will? Why do you think Jill was so easily fooled by him?
  8. What rights do you think a person should have if they were instrumental in helping raise a child? What do you think is better for the child? How do you think the legal system will deal with this issue in the future given the growing number of blended families?
  9. Often times a parent must give the majority of their attention to the child that needs it the most. Do you feel like Jill was neglecting Megan in favor of helping Abby? What would you have done if you were Jill?
  10. Now, for fun—Would you help solve the murder of your ex-husband? Go easy—at least until the second glass of wine has been served.